two wrongs don't make a right

Having you-know-who and my bffl hating/severely disliking each other is such a trial. Life would be so much easier if Mia got on with my friends. Seriously, tonight she was supposed to come out of dinner for a friends birthday with me and she bailed because she wasn't thrilled by the guest list. Seriously, she's so antisocial. And for a vaguely popular person, it's very contradictory.

I don't blame her for the anti-you-know-who sentiment. I've been grateful for it at times. I didn't get to indulge in it ever and without her constantly extolling his vices, rather than his virtues, it would have made everything much harder. I also appreciate that her dislike comes completely in my defense. Though misguided at times, it was in protectiveness over me that she got so pissed off at him. Sure, she doesn't give me much credit and she didn't ever listen to me but considering how fucking stupid as I could be with him... well, she wasn't completely wrong. And I'll admit, I always found it funny that Jerky McJerkface or other variants was his identifier for quite a long time. It's not that original, we use similar things to that for other guys. 'Hottie McHotties' are what we call two guys in our stats class.

But I don't like him being mean about her. To him, since everything is in the past and forgiven and she has no reason to be protective now, Mia can't be angry with him anymore.

I disagree on principal, because I think just because the act is over, doesn't mean it didn't happen. To be honest, she thinks he's an asshole. The fact that he's no longer proving it doesn't mean he's changed. And she's been a bitch to him on occasion due to this. She isn't the sort of person to keep her opinions to herself.

But i understand her reasons for it, she was protecting me in her weird way. So I don't like him calling her a bitch or underestimating my friendship with her. She's my best friend. At least she supports me unconditionally. I mean yeah, she's a total bitch. The amount of annoying things she can say in a single day boggles the mind. She told me yesterday we're only friends cos I live the closest.

But I think she gets it better than he does. I won't let him bitch about her.