Wednesday, 2 January 2013

2013 Questions Challenge

I'll keep this all to one entry so don't worry about being spammed every day with only a quick question :) If I miss a few days, and I'm sure it'll happen, I'll make sure to just answer all the ones I miss when I come back. I love New Years, even if it's super cliche, it's such an awesome marker to begin new things, if only I can keep momentum up!

Day 1: Hopes, dreams, and plans for the next 365 days with a picture of yourself?

I want to do better at uni, I want all Distinctions next semester, I know I can do it if I try. I'll be doing less Commerce so hopefully that'll mean I'm able to go better because I'll be having more fun and am more interested in what I am learning:)

I'd like to get a boyfriend this year, so I'd like to meet some new people, become more confident, go out more. Organise some interesting things with my friends, maybe go overseas for the first time if I can find someone who wants to travel with me.

Lose a bunch of weight, 15kgs would be good to start :) Even if it doesn't pan out the way I fantasise about, any progress is progress, and at this point I just want to make it until the end of the month without quitting!

Annnnnd here is my picture :) Along with my messy bed haha.

Day 2: Something that’s illegal but you think it should be legal?

Downloading music. I think artists should make their money through a) tours and b) advertisment and sponsorship. At the very least, popular music, I still agree with supporting struggling artists/artists who haven't 'made' it yet. Besides, everyone does it anyway, you can't stop people, so why try?

Day 3: What you think your reason for being here is?

Just to... fulfill myself, to make life better for the people around me? I don't believe in any real preconcieved destiny or meaning, just what I make of it. I think life is amazing, I think it's special and worth everything. I think it's spectacular and brilliant and I want to live it to the best of my ability, doing the things I love, feeling deeply, loving completely, living generously and well.
  
Day 4: How you think your life would change if you achieved your dream?

I'll talk about my fitness/weight loss dream because that's the biggest one that I work on daily, rather than the nearest/dearest to my heart which are just being happy and getting a good job and having a family and little kids and being a parent and having a husband who is lovely and getting to bang them all the time, which is all stuff I want but I don't have details for that. That's not so much a dream I 'achieve' as just my general life direction, fingers crossed and here's hoping.

So... if I achieve my weight loss dreams, and am now a size S or size 10, and I weigh 60kg and my tummy doesn't poke out at the bottom and I can walk into a clothes shop and look good in all the dresses, rather than in none, and can try different styles of clothes, and not feel embarrassed about even entering some shops because I feel like the skinny girls are laughing at me and the shop assistant is raising her eyebrow. I'd find it easy to find shorts that look nice and I could wear mid drift tops and shirts without cleavage because it wouldn't matter, I could look nice in other areas. I'd feel more confident and while it might not improve my conversation skills, I'd feel less insecure when talking to people, I'd wonder less if they liked me or what they saw in me- I know changing myself superficially wouldn't really make me a better person in any way, but I'd feel like people would have to stop judging me on how big I am and could pay attention to other things, even if it's still physical things, or beyond that, to what I'm saying.

I'd stop feeling restricted from doing things like going wild or flirting or believing that I was attractive enough for guys to be interested in me. I could put myself out there more and feel less like an out of place awkward penguin. Because the thing is,  I like myself.  I like how I'm nerdy and how I have an opinion on everything, no matter how little I know on the topic, because I respect the fact that I do know a lot about a lot of things. I like that I'm smart and capable and responsible and conscientious and a good friend and I may not be outgoing or a leader or funny but I think I'm worthwhile and special and people should like me but then sometimes I think, why would people want to be friends with someone who isn't pretty and who is big and flawed and binges on junk and is so scared of being judged?

And so I think, getting rid of that major insecurity would help me. I understand that physical changes can only be second to mental ones. I know that loving myself as I am is the only way that I am going to manage it when I'm thinner. But I don't worry too much because I do love myself, just not all of me, all the time.

Achieving this dream does mean a lot to me. I was going to say 'the world' but I know that I'd tried this before and it hasn't stuck, that I've given up and lost motivation and that sucks, because I know how much I want it, it's just so hard and it's just a daily thing, it's every meal, and added to that, thinking about exercise and what I can do, and what I should be doing and talking myself in and out of things. But every time I try, I learn something and do things and get a bit better and knowledgeable and further ahead. Not always weight wise, I'd stay I'm back at the start line there, but it's a journey and I get that and I got to get a lot of yummy food to get me back where I am so let's just say it happened and no regrets.  I'm a better runner, I know so much more about food, I'm not being obsessive over calorie counting now,  and apart from on this blog I'm not mentioning it to everyone, I'm just letting it be my thing.

Day 5: Something you would change about the world?

Equality ideally. Or just lack of discrimination. I want people to be able to be different, to have different cultures and ideas and bodies and skin colour and traditions and beliefs, but have equal opportunities given to them despite that.

I don't think it'll ever happen exactly, but I think we could be a lot closer than we are. As a world, the inequality is appalling, that parts of Africa and India and other third world countries where kids can't go to school and walk all day to get a few litres of water or food, and women are forced into marriages and raped and die giving birth, and men are working in dangerous conditions for a dollar a day, that those things are a reality while I get paid $300 for 20 hours work for my whole week, and can save most of it and still be totally comfortable and go out to dinner and go the movies and have a laptop and phone and... all of that, it's not fair.

But also all the first world countries inequalities, sexism, racism, ableism, cissexism, body shaming, looking down on people for accents, geography, haircut. I would change the way people judge each other for stupid things.

Day 6: Something you would like to change about yourself?

Damn, I was thinking about this all day and I had a good answer but I've forgotten it. My awkwardness I suppose, I'd like to lessen. The way I link my fingers in front of me, I've realised I do it all the time, whenever I feel uncomfortable or awkward (which is all the time). And while I've been trying to loosen up at work (one of the girls Cassie actually said something about my increase in snarking ability), rather than just keeping quiet. But I'm one of those people who agonises over what to say and when to say it and then I always pick wrong and I start speaking right when something happens or someone else starts speaking.

Day 7: A show or a movie that has changed you, and how?

Totally sucks to say, since I hate Glee so much, but Glee.

I remember watching the Pilot and thinking 'wow'. Those first 13 episodes were so right on the ball, and outrageous, and heartwarming and angsty, and you rooted for all the characters despite how crazy it all was. Plus you got music and everyone at least some people, has musical fantasies, where you get to sing songs about your feelings to whoever caused those feelings. At least I do, as soon as I put my ipod in, it's all 'who am I singing this to?' and 'what would be say?' and 'how would I perform it?', even though I lack singing and performance ability, it's a lovely fantasy.

But as far as changing my life goes, that's more to do with Brittana.

See, like most people, when it comes to relationships, I have a 'type'. Well, in TV shows, books and movies I do, in real life I don't usually go for what it is I actually like so my track record is weird. I ship all types of best friends, I just like the relationships that don't start in romance, I prefer similarity over opposites attract, I don't mind if they clash but generally, I like like-minded best friends who understand each other better than anyone else does.

Generally my OTP's aren't canon, because while I think this makes a perfect relationship, not that many people tend to agree with me. I'm a Harry/Hermione, Team Jacob etc. But see, Brittana was different and I don't know if I've thought of it this way before but while I like all my OTP's (they're my one true pairings- at least, one true pairing per show), Brittana is the otp to end otps, the ultimate. If I had to pick just one, I think it would be Brittana. I think I've worked out why and it's the fact that they're both girls.

The best friend relationship is my formula always, but I never identified with one as closely because I don't have a male best friend. Wish I did, I'd totally end up in love with them, but I never have. Brittana though, was something that I had so much head canon and back story for, without even thinking. I knew how best friends act and what they'd do together and talk about and how they'd spend summers and sure, they were hot cheerleaders and not too much like me personally, it didn't matter. I identified in the ways that mattered- subconsciously anyway. When it comes to my best friend, I'm fiercely protective, just like Santana is with Brittany and no one else. With everyone else, I feel like Brittany, and I follow other people's leads and like being the baby and feeling young and cared for and cuddled, and with this girl, I don't mind being the big spoon. Quite literally most of the time. With her, I always felt like I took on the more male role, helping her and giving her little flowers and calling her pretty and I don't know, lots of stuff.

To be clear, I'm just friends with this girls and I don't know what kind of feelings I harbour. She's different to everyone else and has been for years, but I don't think it's romantic anymore, it's just different.

But anyway, seeing that relationship develop on screen was magic and it was brilliant and I got Tumblr and all that changed my life, so Glee, I hate you, you suck, you make my day worse, but you created Brittana (at least the lovely Naya Rivera and Heather Morris did), so I grudgingly thank you for that.

Day 8: Things that make you sad?

One of my best friends has complex regional pain syndrome and that sucks heaps, which makes me sad. It's one of the worst pain disorders out there, has almost no treatments, pain killers do nothing so my friend just has to grin and bare it.

Still, it makes her life very tough and stops her from doing so many things, like running or sport, even just being able to rough house or be touched carelessly. It's such a random, pointless thing.

Day 9: Things that make you happy?

TV shows and books. And some movies. I can't live without characters and plots and stories and feels, I get a lot of joy from that. I also love sport, I like getting competitive and winning and getting better at things. I like pretty things, like rainbows and colours and fruit and ohmigosh, food.

Day 10: What you think when you hear the words “be yourself”?

I'm all about platitudes and cliches. I love them. I have a whole fitness blog dedicated to reblogging quotes like that. They totally motivate me. I think 'oh my gosh, that's RIGHT, I'm the only me there is! Why would I be a second rate copy of someone else when I'm GREAT? People need to like me for me because I'm too lazy to act like someone else forever! Eventually they'll work it out and then were would I be? To quote Darren Criss, there is nothing more badass than being who you are.


Day 11: The worst advice you’ve ever heard, or ever been given?


I'm in a weight loss mood so I suppose I'm thinking along those lines, because there is so much bad advice out there about fitness and weightloss. Some of it is by the pro mia/pro ana people, things like the Skinny Girl Diet, which is eating basically around 300 calories a day (an average person eats 2000), or intermittent fasting, or juice fasts. Anything that tells you to eat less than 1200 is dangerous. Though I only ate about 900 today, oops. I fell asleep, things happened.


Day 12: The best advice you’ve ever heard, or ever been given?


I was trying to think of something profound but I failed a bit. I think the best advice I've been told is just to be comfortable with yourself, to like yourself, not to stress over things you can't change. My advice to people is generally unhelpful and condescending things like 'stress less' and 'chill out'.


Day 13: Your favorite quote?


"Life is not measured by the number of breaths we take, but by the moments that take our breath away."
~ Maya Angelou


I have a lot of favourite quotes but I think this is the top one for me. In the end, it's not the endless hours scrolling tumblr or sleeping or watching TV that'll matter, it's the heart beating fast, putting ourselves out there, crazy wild stupid things we do, those are the moments we'll remember. I need to endeavour to have more of those :)

Day 14: Write about something you believe in, anything at all


Feminism. I've written a bunch of posts on that, refer there for more :) Equality is important :)


Day 15: A song that makes you cry and why?


White Horse by Taylor Swift gives me lots of feels. Listen to it, it's pretty obvious why.


Day 16: Someone you trust?


My cousin Lizzy. She's pretty trustworthy :)

Day 17: Your idol and why you look up to them?

Jennifer Lawrence, for being such a badass, for being independent, funny, confident, herself and making no apologies for being that, while still being ambitious and driven.

Day 18: Why you made your blog, why you still have it?

This blog is purely because I love to talk about myself and I like thinking people are reading it :) My Tumblr blogs are to keep me 100% up to date on fandom and to keep me motivated and educated on fitness and nutrition.

Day 19: Your thoughts on your family?

My family is pretty good. Dysfunctional to an extent but all families are and even if some parts aren't really family, just people you're related to, I'm close to quite a few people that make the rest worth it. I think family is really important.

Day 20: What you think makes someone beautiful?

Confidence, a lovely smile and a killer tan :) I know that's superficial, but we don't have to talk about their beautiful soul do we? You don't look at someone and say 'dear god, they're beautiful', unless you're either in love or they have outer beauty aka dark tan, smooth skin and a pretty smile.

Day 21: What does your favorite tshirt look like?

I HAVE to change this entry because I got a new shirt today and I only wrote the entry last night so it's not a big difference, from my bffl, and its amazing, brilliant, perfect, argh. It's from America, my very first fandom shirt :) Goodbye fandom shirt-ginity. Here's a pic, I had to put it on as soon as I got it. It's Dean and Cas from Supernatural, it's fanart and the quote is from the first words Castiel ever said to Dean, "I'm the one who gripped you tight and raised you from perdition."


I am blissful with happiness.


Day 22: How you judge intelligence?

I know I shouldn't really, but I judge it a lot on IQ, education, politics, opinions and knowledge of random crap.

Day 23: A month/year of your life when you were happiest and why?

October 2012. I know that's when HSC and everything was, but it was a great time, both romantically (first pash), emotionally, socially and scholastically. Not only did I go well in exams, not really stressing out, I graduated then and probably had formal, I grew closer to my bffl and we were both really happy and dramatic and having dramas over boys and crushes and it was such fun.

Day 24: Your favorite 10 people right now and why?

Seriously, 10?
  • Mama
  • Dad
  • Mia (bffl)
  • Jess (cos we're spending more time together)
  • Mego (cos always)
  • Austin (cos always)
  • Lizzy (cos favourite cousin 5eva)
  • Me (cos I'm awesome)
  • Bri (cos ily)
  • Sarah (cos ily)
I'm very female centric hey. 

Day 25: The last movie you watched?

The Other Boleyn Girl. With Scarlett Johannson who is my celebrity crush if ever I had one. Her and Jennifer Lawrence. It's the lips and the figure and her eyes and her confidence and talent and skill and she's perfect ok? Though TOBG is kind of a let down, it's one of my favourite books but a disappointing adaptation.

Day 26: 5 things you’re looking forward to?
  • Losing weight. These last two days I've spent writing heaps long letters to myself (future Lucy) in texta for my motivation wall, which is getting huge now after a year of being added to, but basically just how I can absolutely do it if I just don't give up and keep remembering why I'm doing it and what's important. I wrote letters to convince myself not to binge, letters to not fall off the wagon and when I do, how to regain motivation and get back to it (hoping I won't need that one), and a letter for once I do succeed, or at least get a lot closer. That letter is strictly to be read once I'm under 62kg. That's pretty close to my goal weight which is 60kg, though of course it's more about just seeing where I'm happy and comfortable at, and what I can maintain. But anyway, a lot of my convincing is about picturing the future in vivid detail, what it could look like when this Uni semester is over if I try hard, not just at exercising and eating right, but at making friends, being happier and enthusiastic and motivation for studies. I mean, of course, losing weight doesn't do all that for me, but being happier, motivated and enthusiastic every day, the weight will come off as a side effect :) Which will fuel my happiness and drive to continue.
  • Uni starting back. Which is a surprise because my friends have all been saying that and I've been like, what is wrong with you, holidays are the best thing ever. But I think after one more month, I'll be ready to get stuck back in, hopefully with a fire to succeed that last year lacked. Also, I'm eager for time to pass in a way, because well... refer back to number 1. Every day is a step closer :)
  • Seeing the dogs again. When school goes back, I'll ask Mum to set up a play date for me.
  • Showing off my hair!!
  • Seeing my friends again. Jeepers, it's Australia Day and I hung out all day by myself. What gives?
Day 27: A person you wished lived closer and why?

The owners of my dogs, jfc. I mean, I know it makes sense that they live in Stanwell Park and if they didn't, we wouldn't know them and they never would have taken the dogs but it just makes planning to see them such a production and an all day event.

Day 28: Something you makes you really angry?

Slutshaming and rape culture. I;d expand but I'm not in a mood for a rant. If you don't know what those things are, look them up and educate yourself.

Day 29: A date you’d love for someone to take you on?

Oh man. Okay. Alright. Let me think. I have some 'musts' but everything else can change, so this is just one idea that would be awesome. Okay. Evening date, wearing a pretty but casual dress (like just a summer dress), while he's in dark jeans and a clean Tshirt, he picks me up from my house and we go and get Chinese or chicken n chips or something else delicious, and we take it to the grass near the beach, he has a picnic basket with plates and lemonade and maybe a picnic blanket and we sit and eat and talk. Then we put the basket back in his car and go for a long walk along the shore at the beach when all the stars are out and then we kiss and it's great.

That's the dream, man. To be honest, I got close with you know who to fulfilling it but we both cancelled.

Day 30: 5 favorite girls names, 5 favorite boys names?

I am way more prepared for this that I need to be.

Girls:
  • Chloe
  • Abigail
  • Leah
  • Bethany
  • Chelsea
Boys:
  • Daniel
  • Hayden
  • Jared
  • Andrew
  • Jacob.
Day 31: A bit about your social life outside of tumblr?

It's not too bad... I mean, it isn't rocking right now but sometimes it is. I have lots of close friends and everything is sweet in the how-many-people-care-about me area, but I don't go out a lot doing crazy interesting stuff because they can be lame. I do lots of sports and things, meet people like that, I'm at Uni so that's vaguely social and I get invited to parties now and then. So moderate-to-low popularity with many really close friends but no affinity for acquaintances or casual friends.

Day 32: How many pictures do you have in your room?

None really, of me or friends. I have my motivation posters, I have paintings of my puppies, and netball signs from last years semis, but I don't really have pictures. I keep a few photo albums on my shelf though.

Day 33: Someone who really hurt you?

Anyone who has actually read my blog knows this one. You-know-who really did, more than I ever thought he would. But it was a messy jumble of bad decisions from both of us so I take my share of blame as well. I saw something on Tumblr the other day that said "I gave you my heart." "Well, I didn't ask for it." And perhaps that is true. Not completely, I know it wasn't one sided and he made me fall for him in some ways by being the charming asshole that he is and directing that in my direction but I'd never deny that feelings need some kind of approval from the one feeling them to let them go crazy and I let them.

Day 34Your horoscope for today and whether you think it’s accurate?

Holy shit.
What even... let me look it up. Sigh.
Have you been exercising beyond your fitness level, Sagittarius? If you have, you're probably feeling very tired, sore, and out of sorts. Take it easy today, even if you don't want to. You can still exercise, but concentrate on yoga and tai chi rather than more strenuous programs like aerobics. Push yourself a little, but not too much. The idea of "no pain, no gain" is a fallacy.

Okay, to reiterate. No, I don't believe in horoscopes in the slightest but holy shit, I just got back from an hours run on the day that I promised my fitness instructor I was supposed to be resting... damn it, now I'm going to have to wonder if there is truth in this thing... (which there isn't) but damn. Yes, it's accurate as heck.


Day 35: What is your favorite poptart flavor?

I'm Australian, what the fuck is a poptart? I mean, I've heard of them, 
obviously, I read, but idfk. What flavours are there?

Day 36: What do you think about your friends?

They're good. They're true friends, the ones I'm going to keep 5eva. My bffl, Bri, Mego, they're gonna be around
for a long time, hopefully my whole life. You-know-who and some of the others, who knows? Maybe. They aren't
perfect people, but neither am I and I can accept their flaws generally, that's why they're still around. They make me
happy and make my life much more pleasant and fulfilling.

Day 37: Who are you?

I don't even. I'm Lucy. I'm a girl, I'm white, I'm Australian, I'm a student, I'm 19, I'm blonde, I'm not skinny, I'm smart, I like small dogs and other small fluffy animals and reading. I like running mostly, I'm a feminist. I like boxing and aggression sports because they make me feel badass. I'm a shooter in netball, I like kids, I like TV shows.

Day 38: Thoughts on your generation?
Hmm, I suppose to an extent I like, and am proud of my generation. Like, in 21 Jump Street, while I don't recommend the movie, it had the two cops who would have graduated high school in the 90's, typical high school, popular jocks and uncool nerds dichotomy, coming back to pose as students and finding the whole social ladder different. When they said they didn't care about recycling or something, the main 'cool kid was like 'that's fucked up man, who doesn't care about the environment?' I think that's changed a bit, being a bit nerdy, a bit smart, I think that means more. Basically hipsters. I think kids have more sense of the world. But also, the negatives, I think everyone is so fucking coddled and sheltered. I think the internet makes it worse. I think the massive amount of medicating kids is bad, I think the amount of depression/anxiety/social awkwardness, I think that's not all brain chemistry and 'no one's fault', I think it's the way kids were raised. Sorry if that's offensive, but I do. I think being coddled has made us soft. Sometimes I do want to tell people to build a bridge and get over it. I'm not saying that my parents generation had it right, with the cane and kids should be seen and not heard but I think we do it wrong too. I think sending kids outside to play and just spending all their time outdoors, it's good for kids. I know society has changed and it's not always possible to have that neighbourhood kids experience- I was lucky to have it. There's more stranger danger, less knowing your neighbours, more people....

Overall my generation doesn't suck, I'm not going to be like 'I wish I was from this or that era', even though it would be cool to have been there in the 70's for the second wave feminist revolution, because I think it would have been amazing to be that kind of activist, when no women wore bras and you could go to rallies and protest the Vietnam war and feminism wasn't a dirty word... but I respect and understand the fact that my life is better than theirs because of their efforts and I reap all the benefits there.

Day 39: Why you think you’ve learned more from the good or the bad?

While bad stuff does teach us more, my life is mostly a jumble of positive experiences so overall, it's the good that I've learnt from most.

Day 40: What are features you get complimented on a lot?

Mostly my hair before I dyed it brown and chopped it off. I regret it somewhat, the number of times I was told that millions of people would die for my hair colour, and how many hair dressers telling me how thick it is and how many people asking if it was naturally that colour.... but my hair is my hair, it was my choice to cut it off, people do say it looks nice short, I don't know if I agree, but I'm used to hiding behind my hair. I think I just want to be blonde again.

Day 41: When was the last time you wrote a letter? to whom?

Awkwardly.... to myself. I write myself letters like a loser. I don't mean I post them or whatever, I just write to my future self, to keep myself on track and just to amuse myself to look back on.

Day 42: What do you think of your driver’s license picture?

It's not super flattering but who cares, it means I can drive which is one of the best things about being an adult.

Day 43: Is it possible to lie without saying a word?

Of course. You can like through not saying anything, through what you don't say, through what other people say and you don't correct. Through your actions. Through how you smile, or shrug, you can ignore people you'd really rather sit and watch and listen to all day. You can kiss someone and that could be a lie. What you do is about so much more than words. Lying is just willfully allowing people to have their misconceptions, about keeping people from the truth and you don't need words for that.

Day 44: When was the last time you wore a dress?

Sunday. I like dresses. It was my pink army camouflage dress.

Day 45: When was the last time you tried something new?

Well, maybe all the exercising things, like starting boxing. Or doing a major run, with 40000 people. Or going to the Bank today by myself, that was new... I don't know, I'm doing pretty well at advancing myself in terms of experiences lately.

Day 46: What makes you smile?

Singing to myself...watching awesome TV shows, getting excited over things, eating delicious food....

Day 47: What was your last Halloween costume?

Don't do Halloween.

Day 48: Your life story in three words

This is too hard.... um....

Day 49: Are you a lover or a fighter?

Can't I be both? Probably fighter. Fighting with boys I like is totally a turn on.

Day 50: Why you are doing this challenge?

Why not? It's fun. I like questions.

Day 51: Describe your future wedding?

I haven't decided yet. It wouldn't be too large, just family and close friends... maybe in the park or something, as opposed to in a church. I don't want a beach wedding, but I'd love a reception near the beach, so all the photos are taken on the sand... but of course, these are decisions I'll make with my fiance when I have one. My wedding day isn't one of those things I dwell on too much.

Day 52: if you didn’t have an age, how old would you think you were
Day 53: your day, in great detail
Day 54: your definition of love
Day 55: a passage from a book that has touched you
Day 56: something you did as a child that other people remember you for
Day 57: what is your definition of happiness
Day 58: places you want to visit, and why
Day 59: what color are your favorite pair of flip flops
Day 60: a YouTube video you absolutely love and describe why
Day 61: one of your most prized possessions
Day 62: how many keys are on your keyring
Day 63: the song with the most number of plays on your itunes
Day 64: favorite thing about last month

Day 65: one random fact about yourself
Day 66: if you could switch lives with someone for a day, who would it be 
Day 67: how you found out about tumblr, and why you made one 
Day 68: the best concert you have been to
Day 69: powerful song lyrics you love
Day 70: a celebrity you don’t necessarily enjoy, and why
Day 71: differences between you and your best friend
Day 72: list of everything you ate today
Day 73: what are your favorite pair of shoes
Day 74: how would you describe your style of clothing
Day 75: what is one of the best dreams you have ever had
Day 76: how do you feel about going green
Day 77: what gives you everyday inspiration
Day 78: would you rather people be honest with you, even if it’s something not good, or lie to you to make you feel good
Day 79: least favorite subject in school
Day 80: a picture from your childhood
Day 81: what is your biggest fear
Day 82: would you break the law to save a loved one
Day 83: if you had to teach something, what would you teach
Day 84: do you think crying is a sign of weakness or strength
Day 85: if you had the opportunity to get a message across to a large group of people, what would your message be
Day 86: what is the difference between living and existing
Day 87: what are your views upon sex before marriage
Day 88: does money equal happiness
Day 89: are you self-aware
Day 90: write a letter to one of your close friends
Day 91: name a book you read in school that wasn’t entirely awful
Day 92: what have you learned just from attending your school
Day 93: what about the opposite sex can you not understand
Day 94: do you keep your thoughts to yourself
Day 95: describe the weather right now
Day 96: what do you love the most about your grandparents
Day 97: something you’ve always wondered
Day 98: what would be the hardest and most fearful thing you would ever have to face in your lifetime
Day 99: do you think it’s better to have a few close best friends or to have a lot of acquaintances
Day 100: what is the best thing about being your age
Day 101: would you like to travel abroad to learn about new things throughout the world
Day 102: lessons you’ve learned throughout life
Day 103: do you believe in god
Day 104: three words you can’t go a day without using
Day 105: describe your favorite place in the world
Day 106: someone you judged by the first impression
Day 107: the name of your pet
Day 108: is it easier to forgive or forget
Day 109: if you were a super hero, what kind of powers would you have
Day 110: something that makes you happy
Day 111: do you wish upon 11:11 even if it may not come true
Day 112: what is the most important part in a relationship, do you think
Day 113: do you believe that if you want something enough you’ll get it
Day 114: do you like when people are protective over you
Day 115: is it possible to be single and happy
Day 116: one guy who means a lot to you
Day 117: if you were to get a tattoo, what would it look like
Day 118: what people in your life inspire you the most
Day 119: something you hope you never have to do
Day 120: what is your zodiac sign and what do you think it means
Day 121: what do you think about stereotypes
Day 122: which activities make you lose track of time
Day 123: do you believe teenagers can fall in love
Day 124: have you ever had feelings for someone who was seeing someone else
Day 125: have you ever gone out of your way to make someone happy
Day 126: have you ever been betrayed by someone you trusted
Day 127: do you believe in second chances
Day 128: what is your life’s purpose
Day 129: favorite month of the year and why
Day 130: if you were deserted on an island, what would you bring
Day 131: what do you worry about
Day 132: do you believe ex’s can be friends
Day 133: if you had to choose between a million dollars or to be able to change a regret, what would you do
Day 134: do you have a reason to smile right now
Day 135: is change a good thing
Day 136: if you were 12 and looked at yourself in the future, would you be happy
Day 137: one of your wildest dreams
Day 138: one of the nicest things anyone has said to you
Day 139: something you can’t wait for
Day 140: how do you feel about people disrespecting their parents
Day 141: someone who fascinates you
Day 142: how have you changed in the past 2 years
Day 143: how important you think education is
Day 144: are you planning on having children one day
Day 145: is it easy to trust others
Day 146: is there someone that makes you happy every time you see them
Day 147: what do you think about ignorant people
Day 148: do you think more about the past, present, or future
Day 149: would you rather love one person or have many short relationships
Day 150: how is your heart lately
Day 151: would you move to a different country to be with the one you love
Day 152: what is one step of action you would take to change the world
Day 153: do you think the hardest thing is sometimes the easiest thing
Day 154: a moment you felt most satisfied in your life
Day 155: what is one achievement you are proud of
Day 156: what is a TV show you enjoy the most
Day 157: do you like to give or receive
Day 158: would you give up all of your presents one Christmas time to help others from other countries
Day 159: what is one thing you love about photography
Day 160: do you go by live, laugh, love
Day 161: why is it so much easier being a child, than an adult
Day 162: highs and lows of this month
Day 163: where is one place you would love to visit
Day 164: one thing many people don’t know about you
Day 165: favorite type of music
Day 166: have you ever had a teacher that changed your life
Day 167: funniest movie you have ever seen
Day 168: how do you feel about cyber bullying
Day 169: what is your life motto
Day 170: what is something you notice throughout high school
Day 171: one famous guy you would marry in an instant
Day 172: what kind of person attracts you
Day 173: is there something you laugh at every time it happens
Day 174: how do you think you’re going to act like in 10 years
Day 175: songs you listen to when you’re happy
Day 176: do you enjoy cooking
Day 177: something you’re proud of in the past few days
Day 178: a goal you have this weekend
Day 179: how did you spend your last birthday?
Day 180: what is the most inspiring book you have read?
Day 181: A picture of your favorite memory
Day 182: A picture that makes you laugh
Day 183: you are told you have one week left to live, how do you spend it?
Day 184: when you think of your best friend, what is your first memory? How did you meet them, explain him/her.
Day 185: where will you be in ten years?
Day 186: have you ever made a time capsule? If yes, with who, do you remember what you put inside? If not, what would you put inside if you had to put something in right now?
Day 187: post a picture of yourself, taken today, and five random facts about yourself.
Day 188: what are you always carrying around with you?
Day 189: list everything you like about yourself, and explain why. What makes you unique?
Day 190: put your iPod or mp3 player on shuffle and list the first ten songs/artists.
Day 191: are you excited for anything right now?
Day 192: summer or winter? Why?
Day 193: what are you doing for the next big holiday? (i.e. Christmas, Hanukkah, Thanksgiving, Easter, Passover…)
Day 194: what did you do today?
Day 195: have you ever had braces/will you ever need braces?
Day 196: what is one thing you regret doing?
Day 197: do you have a set out path for your future yet?
Day 198: a picture taken over ten years ago
Day 199: what is the last book you read, why did you read it?
Day 200: whatever suits your fancy. (A picture, random facts, what you did today, your plans for tomorrow)
Day 201: what are your plans for tomorrow?
Day 202: what did you do last Saturday?
Day 203: what is the last thing you had to save your money for?
Day 204: do you have a job, if so, where?
Day 205: do you believe in love at first sight? Why or why not?
Day 206: what’s your favorite band?
Day 207: have you ever cried in a movie? Which?
Day 208: tell us about your family.
Day 209: what do you remember most about last winter?
Day 210: in a nutshell, what is your daily routine?
Day 211: a picture of you and your best friend
Day 212: one person you know you can trust?
Day 213: the person closest to your heart. How do you know them?
Day 214: what are your feelings on gay marriage?
Day 215: a letter to your crush
Day 216: list of some of your favorite tumblrs
Day 217: a letter to someone who you used to be close to
Day 218: a letter to someone you judged by first impression
Day 219: a talent you have
Day 220: a picture that makes you smile
Day 221: a photography picture taken by you.
Day 222: what are you craving right now?
Day 223: bad habits of yours.
Day 224: A picture of something that means a lot to you
Day 225: what is the most inspirational thing you have ever heard
Day 226: next present holiday wish list
Day 227: A picture that can always make you smile
Day 228: list ten people you would die for
Day 229: write a letter to the person you’re closest to
Day 230: what is your favorite memory from before the school age.
Day 231: what were your thoughts enter pre-school, kindergarten, middle school, and high school
Day 232: list the movies you’ll never get sick of watching
Day 233: what is the most quotable movie? List a few of your favorite quotes?
Day 234: favorite song as a ten year old?
Day 235: if your six-year-old self looked at you now, what would their reaction be?
Day 236: what was your most memorable summer
Day 237: who from full house do you relate to most?
Day 238: who/what can’t you live without?
Day 239: have you changed in the past 200 Days?
Day 240: what does your name mean according to urban dictionary? Were you named after anyone in your family, or does your name mean something special to your parents?
Day 241: what name would your parents have named you if you were the opposite sex? Did they have a list of names for you?
Day 242: 10 most significant events in your life
Day 243: what is the last thing you baked?
Day 244: a picture taken recently
Day 245: what is the compliment you get most, what is the compliment you give most?
Day 246: what is your favorite city?
Day 247: your opinion on drinking/drugs
Day 248: who do you text most
Day 249: if you died tomorrow, would you want to tell anyone anything?
Day 250: write a short love story.
Day 251: what inspires you to write?
Day 252: list five things that make you happy
Day 253: list five things that make you sad
Day 254: list your five favorite foods
Day 255: list your five favorite drinks
Day 256: list five things you want to say to ten different people at this moment
Day 257: list five good things about your life
Day 258: list five bad things about your life
Day 259: list your family members and how they help you daily
Day 260: list your five favorite songs
Day 261: list what you did/plan to do today
Day 262: list your favorite stores
Day 263: list how you did your make up today
Day 264: how are you wearing your hair
Day 265: post a picture of your outfit, or explain it
Day 266: an old song you still like
Day 267: when you’ve had a terrible day, how do you deal with it?
Day 268: an overused saying.
Day 269: how are you similar to and different from the majority of Tumblr users?
Day 270: what would your dream house/apartment/castle/tree house/loft/bungalow/etc. look like?
Day 271: who makes you happier than anyone else?
Day 272: what was the worst thing to happen to you in middle school?
Day 273: seven things that cross your mind a lot.
Day 274: six things you love
Day 275: five songs you like.
Day 276: four things you wish you could say, but might never.
Day 277: three things you miss
Day 278: two things you want.
Day 279: one story of a memory you have.
Day 280: what was the last movie you watched, write about it
Day 281: someone you would switch lives with for a day and why
Day 282: if you were stranded on an Island, who would be with you and which limited 10 items would you two have?
Day 283: describe your perfect date
Day 284: write the differences between you and your best friend
Day 285: what got you into this challenge?
Day 286: a picture of what you wore today
Day 287: a silly picture of you/ you & your friends
Day 288: last post you made on Tumblr that doesn’t involve a challenge?
Day 289: write a letter to your followers
Day 290: a video you would usually watch on YouTube
Day 291: what did you eat today?
Day 292: recommend a few Tumblrs and write why you recommended them.
Day 293: when you look outside step outside your front door of the house, what do you see?
Day 294: something that inspires you
Day 295: things you’re looking forward to next week -month
Day 296: create a collage of your pictures you take in 1 Day and post them up.
Day 297: when did you start wearing makeup?
Day 298: do you like to dress up or dress down for school
Day 299: A picture of someone you miss
Day 300: A picture of something you wish you were better at
Day 301: who is your favorite actor/actress and why?
Day 302: A picture of yourself and a family member
Day 303: last time you were sick, what did you have?
Day 304: What is your favorite kind of soup?
Day 305: which grade was your favorite? Why?
Day 306: what are the most distinct memories from preschool age and younger?
Day 307: what are the memories you have when you think of kindergarten?
Day 308: Write 5 things that sum you up. Include a picture with 1 or more of these things.
Day 309: Write about your crush. Write anything: if you’re friends, don’t talk, it’s going great or it’s complicated.
Day 310: What’s the meaning behind your URL? Why did you make a Tumblr?
Day 311: Is there drama in your life just now with friends and/or family? Write about it.
Day 312: What are you grateful for?
Day 313: Write about how you do your makeup/hair. Why do you do it that way?
Day 314: Write about your ideal partner in detail. Does your crush match the criteria? If no, talk about that.
Day 315: What is your definition of the word hate? Talk about 3 things you hate.
Day 316: What is your definition of the word love? Talk about 3 things you love.
Day 317: Your fears?
Day 318: Are you happy with how you look?
Day 319: If you could, would you rather live in the early 1900’s?
Day 320: Favorite book. Explain why you like it
Day 321: Worst book you have read. Explain why it is the worst
Day 322: A book you are willing to read, why.
Day 323: Your favorite quote of any of the books you have read
Day 324: Which book you want-need to be made into a movie?
Day 325: Favorite character of any book.
Day 326: Have you read HP? Did you like it? Yes no why?
Day 327: Have you read the twilight saga? Did you like it? Yes, no why?
Day 328: A book you recommend? Why?
Day 329: Ten Things that make you angry
Day 330: Ten things that make you happy
Day 331: Your favorite music
Day 332: Your favorite movies
Day 333: Where you want to be in ten years
Day 334: What you want from a relationship
Day 335: Which fictional character are you most like?
Day 336: Describe the worst day of your life
Day 337: Describe the best day of your life
Day 338: Your opinion on gay marriage
Day 339: Five positive traits you have
Day 340: Five negative traits you have
Day 341: Your views on religion
Day 342: Describe your relationship status
Day 343: what is the most inspirational thing you’ve ever heard
Day 344: the last person you texted— how do you know them?
Day 345: post a picture of yourself today
Day 346: what are your favorite types of shoes? Why?
Day 347: are you getting bored of this challenge?
Day 348: what’s the most embarrassing thing you’ve done lately?
Day 349: what’s the way to win your heart?
Day 350: do you have any hard, life-changing choices to make, anytime soon?
Day 351: are you addicted to Facebook?
Day 352: do you know anyone with an outie belly button? Who?
Day 353: what quote do you live by?
Day 354: last time you cried, why was it?
Day 355: honestly, do you know all the words to your countries national anthem?
Day 356: what is your dream job?
Day 357: as a kid did you want to be a ninja turtle and/or power ranger? Which color?
Day 358: are you as addicted to tumblr as you were a year ago?
Day 359: describe what you normally do on a weekly basis. A little bit about your social life outside of the internet.
Day 360: a picture of what you wore today
Day 361: If you won the lottery, honestly, how would you spend the money?
Day 362: what is the biggest lie you’ve ever told. Why’d you tell it?
Day 363: do you know what your first post on tumblr was?
Day 364: have you changed much in the past year?
Day 365: look back to your first post of this challenge, asking ‘Post a picture of yourself and tell us your hopes, dreams and plans for the next 365 Days’ did you achieve any of these goals? And post a picture.

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