Life Update

So, my bffl is in Europe for a month.

It's cool so far, we've messaged a few times, it's not like France doesn't have Wifi. I haven't missed her much, because I'm pretty busy, keeping my social life up as planned, because I was concerned about the whole no bffl thing and being bored/lonely.

She isn't my only friend by any means, I have a fair few friends and quite a few best friends (the English language doesn't really allow me to differentiate better than that but I'll try to explain. I have Mia, my bffl. I see her 3x times a week. Maybe 5x or more. I talk to her pretty much every day and am comfortable with her in most every way. We hang out and eat and watch TV and don't maintain many boundaries. She's my bffl.

Then I have my best friend, who I love muchly, but don't see more than once a week, and we talk less. But I don't love her less, I talk to her more seriously, and when I'm with her, we are very close and things are pretty chill.

Then two other assorted best friends who are awesome and I'm close to, plus a bunch of other people I'm comfortable with or can talk to on the regular.

I'm hooking up with them more obviously, to fill in the bffl gap and so far it's working well.

Today is the first day in a week that I haven't seen my friends,  and on a bunch of days, I saw more than one friend or had more than one social outing so BAM, I'm practically popular. I did hangdog on Tuesday for the first time in ages, two people texted me to ask so I was like, cool, sure and went along. It turned out to be 5/6 of the people that I'm going skiing with in two weeks, so that was a nice coincidence. I am quite excited for the trip. Me and my best friends boyfriend will be driving up together just us (nothing suss), and while finding conversation for that many hours may be a challenge, if we can agree on music then I think we'll get along fine :) He's a good guy and I want him to be my bro.

I swear, now that exams are over, all the things I was so excited to do during exams, I am totally unenthused for now. Isn't that always the way? Instead of productively reading the rest of the Game of Thrones series, or watching Orphan Black or doing something that actually needs to be done, I mostly Tumble and listen to Louis CK talk on Youtube. Not that I have much scope of reference for stand up comedy but he's hilarious and actually makes me laugh out loud/choke while drinking so I approve. Still, there is probably better ways to spend my time.

I'm still working on my exchange application, I only have a month left and I'm starting to stress, but I will go to Uni tomorrow to get shit done hopefully.

Anyway, that's my life xx