So I thought I'd have some fun and make a post about what I find attractive in people. I'll disclaimer it by saying that  none of the things I think I like are necessary for me to like someone, I am very aware that the second someone becomes interested in me/ I become interested in them, their stock goes through the roof. When I'm attracted to personality, attraction to body comes with generally. They bounce off and enable each other. And it's not like an overall 'he's a 10, I'd bang him' thought when I like someone, that's not the same. When I like someone, it's an obsession with their fingers, their stubble, their shoulders. There was one boy who I started to sort of like, who just had the most beautiful hands. I think he was pissed at me actually, for calling them girly, but they were beautiful. Long and thin and square,  like they were made out of clay. A piano players hands. I was very attracted to that.

With you know who, it was his smile, his wide shoulders, his hips. If I didn't know him and just saw him in the street, I wouldn't find him attractive but all attraction is subjective if you know someone. It's what you associate with it.

But now, speaking from a purely objective point of view, I like (very stereotypically) tanned, beach-y guys, preferably with sun kissed blonde hair and blue eyes but brown can be nice too. Tall is a plus but I prefer wide shoulders. There is almost nothing I am more attracted to than someone who can just encompass you when you hug. I like someone with hips and shoulders at least as wide as mine.

I also love hip bones. Like a lot. One of those fundamental differences between girls and guys is how on guys, hip bones jut right in and it's super hot ok. When it comes to purely sexual thoughts, it's all about the hips. Actually, on anyone it's all about the hips. But mostly everybody has hips good enough to get an A-OK from me.

What else is there to talk about with guys? I like long-ish hair? I'm not into buzz cuts or what not, but again, when it's someone I love, I certainly don't mind. And the long hared look just doesn't work on some people in which case, I am very grateful when they get hair cuts.

As far as like, style goes, I just like guys that look nice in jeans and a T-shirt. Leather jackets turn me on as a general rule and track pants turn me off. So do cardigans and wide ties. Cardigians because of fucking hipsters and idk, I just think skinny ties are more flattering ok?

Girls I have both more and less opinions. Girls faces matter more to me, because as a general rule, I don't really remember guys faces. Guys tend to all look the same to me, I'm not good with faces.  Pretty faces are nice. Body is murky. I don't care about boobs much, they're awesome and sexual and all that, but I have my own. I like hour glass figures so it's the waist that really makes me be like 'she's hot'. Girls with nice legs are nice, but idk, it's always subjective! What looks great on one person looks bad on another, I can't pull girls apart into pieces the way I can with guys. I mean, I can tell you just as quickly 'that girl's pretty' as 'that guy's hot' but girls are overall picture.

Idk, it's hard to describe what attracts me to people, I just know. It takes like .787055424 of a second to decide.

But this was fun, so I will upload this post, as objectifying to pretty much everybody as it is.

Edit: I think the main thing with physical attraction is that it really doesn't matter what turns you on or what you like. Especially in your head which is where most of it happens. Like, out of the guys I'd dated or kissed or whatever, most are totally wrong if you think about what I described. Though I will admit i have made a few mistakes in choosing people I wasn't attracted to because I tend not to like feeling emotions due to ending up feeling like an idiot, so I chose to be worshipped and just recieve attention but close to zero return enthusiasm for them but that's a whole different story.


But I am pretty blase still about what I know I like in my head. Like, everyone gets those disturbing dreams that make them take a step back and be like 'yeah, that's messed up' or read a fic with a weird kink that you realise was totally hot, or you start thinking about someone you know, and like, it's okay.

Sexuality is weird and fantasy isn't real, so go crazy I say. It's why I'm cool with being bisexual, guys are awesome,  girls are awesome, who even cares?

Though weirdly, I fantasize like never, it's just not my thing. I like words.