Sunday, 25 May 2014

You know why I hate 'nice guys'? Guys who think being a 'gentlement'= sex? Guys who hate women? Guys who are envious of other guys who can pick up and they can't? Guys who use forums like Reddit and try to consider themselves PUA's and all that shit.

It's not just a funny thing. It's not just a meme or this pathetic thing, it's literally deadly. Girls are fucking killed over shit like this. The girl who was stabbed and murdered because she turned down a guy for Prom last month? This latest fucking 6 people murder by Elliot Rodger? I just got home from a night out, where my friends who are in a relationship were seen giving each other a peck and rough pushed to kiss again, for the entertainment of this ugly creep, until one of them was so upset she was crying on the way home and she isn't a crier. Where I was roughly made to dance with this guy 3 separate times, and each time I pulled away and moved back to my friends, he and his mates would put his arm around me and pull me away again, putting his hands on my arse. And the other guys who surrounded me and grinded so hard I stumbled. Or the guy who literally picked my friend off the ground when she was wearing a short skirt. Or the guy would called my friend a fucking cunt because she was dancing enthusiastically and accidently elbowed him. They literally got so violent that they ended up on the floor brawling with a bouncer because they couldn't take no for an answer.

This was an average night out. It was a fun night out even. But violence against women, and the utter disregard of what women want and their boundaries are utterly disregarded, it's so common place.

My friends and I teach each other how to deal with it and protect and look out for each other. If someone goes missing for more than 5 minutes, we search for them. If someone is dancing with someone and not looking comfortable, we pull them away, or if someone is creeping, we tell them to fuck off. We are CONSTANTLY on our guard, because we have to be. We have to learn that, we go out knowing that we have to look out for each other, that we have to be wary of guys that approach, and then fucktards blame us for being bitches or being unapproachable or not giving them a chance because of course they  are nice guys and just looking for a good time and respect women but fuck that, that isn't a chance we can take most of the time. In the wise words of Louis C.K, women are literally insane for going on dates with guys and all that shit. Men are the most dangerous thing out there for women.

In spite of this, I had a really good time out tonight (isn't that fucked, that despite all that I can have a good time, because its all just expected?).

Sorry if I repeat myself a bit but its been a long night and I'm far from sober. (Still as eloquent as ever though).

Edit: Okay I have to talk about the Elliot Rodger thing. WHAT A FUCKING PSYCHOPATH. But this can't be written off as just mental illness. IT. IS. A. HATE. CRIME. AGAINST. WOMEN.

It's not the first time. I can't remember right now which other major mass shootings in America in recent times were against women but one of the university ones was, even though the media didn't report it that way...

Like, if it was a black guy or a brown guy or a Middle Eastern guy or a latino guy, this wouldn't be called mental illness. There wouldn't be men commenting 'i feel for him, rejection is hell'.

Literally what the fuck. What. the. fuck. Men's- especially white mens- entitlement to sex and love and relationships, is terrifying. Mass murders, you know what the fucking common factor is, it's entitled white men, why the fuck don't people see that?

AND CAN AMERICA PLEASE CHANGE THEIR STUPID FUCKING GUN LAWS? RIGHT TO BARE ARMS? WHAT ABOUT THE FUCKING RIGHT TO NOT BE GUNNED DOWN IN THE FUCKING STREETS?




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